Top 10 Writing Tips by Mary DeMuth

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Top 10 Writing Tips by Mary DeMuth

So many new writers I meet are wide-eyed and have great dreams of being published and making a living with their words. Many have no idea the journey it takes to become a successful writer, meaning you actually earn a living as a writer.

I’ve been at this occupation well over twenty years, but have only earned income for the last nine. And even now, I typically make less than a teacher’s aide. This has led to some high frustration, many questions, and discouragement. And yet, I haven’t heard God say, stop.

So I continue to honor Him with my ministry of words; however, I still butt up against this tired feeling of frustration. Making 12 cents an hour is okay for a certain amount of time, but years? And how does one combine ministry with the need to make a true living?

I am fortunate my husband makes a good income. If he didn’t, I would have to quit and find a “real” job. I still wonder if that’s what I should do.

All this to say, making a living at writing is not impossible, but it is atypical.

If you feel the nudge to write, and if you HAVE to make a living at it, you may be setting yourself up for disappointment. Perhaps the list below will help you choose realistic parameters and set realistic expectations.

Top Ten Writing Tips:

1. Don’t, don’t, don’t quit your day job to pursue your writing dream unless you have six months of income saved. Even more is better.

2. Be willing to take writing or editing jobs you don’t really love. I’ve done many write-for-hire assignments where I received little or no credit, but the job was good and it paid the bills.

3. Be sure you are not a hobby in the eyes of the IRS. You have to make money at what you do, and have to prove to the IRS that you continue to make money. Be sure to keep great records of what you spend. Quickbooks is something you’ll probably want to learn.

4. Network widely. You cannot make a living at writing if you have no relationships within the industry.

5. Find a tribe of writers you can regularly meet with. They will help you when you feel like quitting. I would not be here (as a writer) without my dear writer friends D’Ann and Leslie.

6. If/when discouragement comes, take a step back. Rest helps you have a better perspective.

7. Be sensitive to the people in your life who may need you to make income. If you cannot provide in a specified period of time, you may need to find a job so you can pay your bills.

8. Be cautious of becoming like students who never leave school. Attending writers conferences is great, but how you really learn to improve is to sit down and write.

9. Don’t expect to “make it” right away. You must remain humble enough to pay your dues: writing for free (sometimes), doing assignments that aren’t your passion, and willingly receiving editorial feedback without being combative.

10. Stop worrying that other people will steal your words. Your enemy isn’t piracy, it’s obscurity.

Evaluate Yourself as a Writer:

1. What remains the single most important thing that keeps you going?

2. What discourages you?

Mary DeMuth

Mary DeMuth is the author of over 30 books and speaks around the world about how to live a new story. Mary mentors writers toward their publishing dream at To discover more of her work, please visit her website at

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